Self-control is a vital aspect of personal development and spiritual growth. It emphasizes the ability to regulate one’s emotions, thoughts, and behaviors. James, a half-brother of Jesus, wrote, “You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry. Human anger does not produce the righteousness God desires.” (Js. 1:19–20, NLT). One of the most compelling examples in the Bible is the story of Joseph in Genesis, chapter 39. Joseph consistently exhibited remarkable self-control, despite facing severe trials. His trials included betrayal by his own brothers, being sold into slavery, and enduring false accusations of others which led to his imprisonment.
When Potiphar’s wife attempted to seduce him, Joseph chose to flee rather than give in to temptation. This act of self-control not only demonstrated his integrity but also reflected his deep trust in God’s sustaining providence. He understood that giving in to that temptation could jeopardize his relationship with God…and thus his future blessings and godly influence.
The benefits of self-control are many. It fosters resilience, helps in making wise decisions (which bring happy rewards), and allows us to act in accordance with our values and beliefs. In Joseph’s case, his self-control ultimately led to his rise to power in Egypt. This helped him to save hundreds of thousands from famine, including his own family.
By practicing self-control, we can navigate life’s challenges with confidence, grace, and purpose. Furthermore, aligning our actions with our faith and achieving greater fulfillment in our lives.
“In view of all this, make every effort to respond to God’s promises. Supplement your faith with a generous provision of moral excellence, and moral excellence with knowledge, and knowledge with self-control, and self-control with patient endurance, and patient endurance with godliness” (2 Peter 1:5–6, NLT)
-John Driggers, Spiritual Advisor for Myers-Davis Life Coaching (10/28/2024, V6 #44)
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